Does God Belong in the Bedroom?

In Does God Belong in the Bedroom? Rabbi Michael Gold turns to the Torah, the wisdom of the rabbis of the Talmud, the Midrash, and other classic Jewish sources. More than a study of texts, the book presents readers with a frank and honest approach to sexual ethics.

daily prayer. After careful soul searching, I decided to pursue a career in the rabbinate. I saw the role of rabbi as a bridge between Jews and Judaism. Being a rabbi meant seriously studying the tradition and interpreting it to Jews as they live today. Occasionally it meant rethinking and adjusting the tradition so that it became viable for modern Jews. Equally often, it meant encouraging modern Jews to integrate creatively traditional values and practices into their daily lives. I have always believed that the ideal rabbi ought to combine the qualities of the brothers Moses and Aaron. Moses, according  to the Talmud, used to say: “ Let the law split the mountain.” 1 In  other words, the law should be applied with full rigor, with no room for compromise or compassion. Moses had little patience for the human weaknesses of the people he tried to lead through the wilderness for forty years. Aaron, on the other hand, was known as a lover of peace and a pursuer of peace, qualities that made him tolerate, even participate in, the sin of the Golden Calf. Aaron failed to realize that there are times the law cannot be compromised. My approach to the rabbinate has been to find a balance between the rigor of Moses and the compassion of Aaron. Sexual ethics presents a particularly difficult challenge for a rabbi with this pragmatic philosophy. The  Talmud teaches, “ Go out and see what the people are doing.” 2 But  suppose that what the people are doing is far from the tradition as developed in the Talmud and codes. Is it possible to bridge the gap? Today many Jews remain unmarried, often through their twenties and thirties and sometimes forever. The Jewish divorce rate has risen dramatically, and many adults are widowed at an age when they are still sexually active. A high percentage of adults have no marriage partner through much of their adulthood. Is it realistic for them to remain celibate? As a rabbi, I must deal with real situations. When I meet with a bride and groom before their wedding, how do I ask for their ad-

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Front MatterTitle Page: DOES GOD BELONG IN THE BEDROOM ?Copyright PageDedication PageCONTENTSPREFACENotes Notes to PrefaceNotes to Chapter 1Notes to Chapter 2Notes to Chapter 3Notes to Chapter 4Notes to Chapter 5Notes to Chapter 6Notes to Chapter 7Notes to Chapter 8Notes to Chapter 9Notes to Chapter 10Glossary Bibliography General SourcesChristian SourcesSources on Nonwarital SexSources on Marital Sex and Family PuritySources on New Reproductive Techniques and AbortionSources on HomosexualitySources on Sex EducationIndex
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